I Did Everything Right. But I Was Still Trapped.
Growing up in the Bronx, I watched my parents work tirelessly. They sacrificed everything so I could have opportunities they didn't. When I got into Baruch College's Zicklin School of Business, it felt like the dream was finally happening. I was going to make it.
I graduated with my BBA in Finance and landed the job — the real one. Finance. Benefits. Prestige. I climbed the ladder exactly like I was supposed to. Better title. Better salary. Six figures. I was winning.
But somewhere along the way, winning started to feel like drowning. The more I earned, the more I spent. Better job meant bigger apartment, nicer things, higher expectations. Seventy-hour weeks became normal. I was making six figures but trading my entire life for a paycheck. Every dollar came with a handcuff attached. Better pay, more golden.
I had built the perfect cage. And I was living in it.